It Doesn’t Have to Be Lonely At the Top

The True Cost of Living Lonely

Long-term loneliness doesn’t just affect your mental health – it’s literally killing you!

Studies into animal and human psychology have definitively proven that isolation is a major cause of stress, and long-term stress leads to a cascade of health problems, including:

• Higher rates of depression and anxiety — No empire feels safe when the king feels alone.
• Heart disease — Loneliness increases the risk of heart attacks and strokes.
• Weakened immune system — Prolonged isolation makes your body more vulnerable to illnesses.
• Cognitive decline — Lack of deep connection speeds up memory loss and dementia risks.
• Shortened lifespan — Persistent loneliness is as damaging to longevity as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

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What We Do

Our work together helps you:

• Conquer the fears that drive you into isolation
• Build boundaries that protect you without isolating you
• Discover new ways to value yourself and others that don’t rely on bank accounts and bottom lines
• Attract the help and support you need without requiring you to hustle hard or grind yourself down
• Turn critics and adversaries into allies and advocates that build you up rather than tear you down

Explore Our Process

My name is Brandy M. Miller. Today, I’m an award-winning author and international speaker as well as a Business Communications Consultant and Relationship Facilitator. Before that, though, I spent decades trapped in a tower built of guilt, shame, and fear that kept me isolated from other people. I was too afraid of rejection, judgment, or the consequences of my own broken behavior to face the risk of letting myself be seen. Everything in my life became a performance. Even the moments when I appeared to be letting my hair down, it wasn’t real. It wasn’t me. It was an illusion I wove designed to please the person in front of me.

I told myself the tower kept them – and me – safe. That it was necessary and unavoidable. The truth? It trapped me in my fears. I was DYING for lack of love.

Then came a moment during a marriage encounter weekend just how lonely this behavior made my life. I was asked to share with my husband – someone I’d known for over 18 years of my life – something deeply, frighteningly personal that I’d never shared with anyone. And I found myself physically shaking with fear. I was perfectly fine being physically naked with him – but the thought of being emotionally naked with him? That terrified me.

Confronting a Painful Reality

The moment I recognized what was happening I was forced to confront a painful reality. The person I always thought knew me best didn’t know me at all – because I hadn’t allowed myself to be seen, not even by him.

That day, I realized something profound: Until I found the courage to be who I was, where I was, exactly as I was, there was no way for anyone to love me. They could love my illusions, but they couldn’t love me.

Writing my story provided the key to unlocking the door to that tower. It helped me to see myself in a whole new light.

It taught me:

• The purpose of the pain
• The triumph in my tragedies
• The profitability hidden in my problems
• The messages in my messes

By embracing ALL of my past – not just the pretty parts of it that I liked – I gained a newfound strength and became empowered to help other people.

Acceptance of my story was where moving forward into the life of my dreams began.

I do not have any less problems, pain, or tragedies in my life today than I did then. I am still one gloriously hot mess.

But I have hope that can’t be taken from me, the love of people who know who I am at my worst and still choose to champion me, joy that doesn’t depend on what I have, and peace that stays no matter what comes my way.  I know how to let my hair down for real, without the illusions.  And I can help you get there, too.

Why We Don’t Work With People We Don’t Know

A bad business relationship is like a shoe that’s too small – you can try to cram yourself into it anyway, but it’s only going to bring you pain and misery.

There’s not enough money in the world to pay us to work with people we don’t know or like. Life’s too short for that kind of misery.

Your money does not impress us. We know money’s just a metric for two things:
1. The amount of trust we’ve earned we can deliver the results you desire.
2. The amount of commitment you’ve got to getting those results.

We know the results we can deliver will change your life for the better. But for us to commit to doing the work it’s going to take us to help you get there, we’ve got to ensure the relationship’s a good fit.

That’s why we insist that those who desire what we can offer attend one of our free, no-stakes, online Abundance Roundtable Coffee Chats.

Text or Email Brandy To Request An Invite to Our Next No-Stakes Online Roundtable Coffee Chat

214-554-4256 or brandy at breakingopenabundance dot com

• No sales pitches.
• No obligations.
• No agenda.
• Just real human-to-human conversation about topics that matter.

Prefer to meet in person? Let’s talk about what that would require.

This Is Not for the Faint of Heart

The quest is long.

The road is hard.

The work is real.

But the reward?

Worth it.